Thursday, September 30, 2010


We have filled out all of our paperwork. We have attended classes. We have spoken with other adoptive parents. We have even been told of a few birth mother situations. The problem is, none of them feel right. When will we know? No situations are perfect. No situations are without issues. So, are we just being picky? Or are we doing the right thing? I have to admit, when I hear things like, "Birth father isn't willing to relinquish rights, and please see our attorney" or "Birth mother smokes a pack a day and birth father is bipolar", it makes it a little.....daunting? Uncomfortable? I don't know the right word to use here. The only thing I know is that none of these situations feel right, and I am really tired of waiting for my baby. *sigh* More waiting.

1 comment:

  1. Hon, I know it is frustrating but you are doing the right thing. If it doesn't feel right, than it doesn't feel right. This isn't something you can compromise. Your little man is out there in some form or another, wheither born yet or not and he will come to you when the time is right. Keep the faith! I love you and I send you a big hug. Wish I could be there to give it to you in person.